The title of this post will lead many readers into the world of all crossdresser issues and some will include all things trans related. Sorry, its just about two people having crossdresser conversation which in this recent case spanned many areas of mutual interest. Last weeks adventure took me back to Las Vegas and the Tuscany Resort where I had dinner Saturday night with Michelle Popkov. I know Michelle from the Vanity Club (VC 517) where she has served as President, Vice President, and more recently Treasurer. While we did discuss some club related stuff the majority of our conversation was in other areas.
INTERESTING CROSSDRESSER CONVERSATIONS
I laugh when I think about the other patrons in Bistecca Steakhouse wondering what those two lovely glamorous ladies were talking about. If they guessed it was the issues Boeing had with the 737 MAX crashes a few years ago they would be right. Most likely they would be shocked that crossdresser conversations would be of such a nature. We are far more complex and interesting than people think and some I have met are downright fascinating.
Crossdresser conversations typically don’t offer up personal details but general career path and hobby interests are usually safe territory. I have had some really enjoyable conversations with some very interesting people with some really cool careers. Very accomplished people who just happen to be wearing women’s clothing when the discussion took place. It is a gift in one sense because I likely never would have met many of these people if it weren’t for crossdressing. In a few cases crossdressing is about all we have in common so our paths would have never crossed.
The crossdressers that I have more in common with have had a very positive influence on my life in general. I have learned much from the ones that are close to me in areas I had little knowledge and in some cases no interest. Our casual crossdresser conversations evolved into listening and learning experiences for me. Like when my friend Ashley asked me if I liked to wear formal gowns I told her no, never much thought about it. She suggested I try it and would like it offering to loan me one of hers. I declined her offer but ended up buying and wearing one for Southern Comfort one year. Ashley has turned out to be an expensive friend all be it a dear one. I now have a fairly large collection of gowns.
BENEFICIAL CROSSDRESSER CONVERSATIONS
Crossdressing conversations on business practices have also been very beneficial sometimes leading to business networking or other resources. But the most beneficial and satisfying crossdresser conversations though are those that solve problems. Trial and error is very expensive and was one of the motivations for me starting my website so I can pass some on that I have learned.
I think my overall appearance has improved over the years based on input from others during crossdresser conversations. The time it takes to get ready has also seen much improvement based in no small part on tricks learned from others. I shaved over an hour off getting ready based on input on nails, eyelashes, and wig choice. I struggled getting nails to stay on until Erica brought me up to speed on gel tabs. They had much improved since my early failed experiments years ago now they go on quick and stay on all night. I now get ready in 1/3 of the time it used to take me. Another friend suggested magnetic eyelashes with a similar time savings because of the quick drying magnetic liner. I actually found the wig source on my own and experimented with several styles until I found the best cut for me. They style with a couple of good shakes then combing using my nails. I used to spend an hour in front of the mirror trying to achieve perfection constantly tweaking it and never being happy.
If you have not browsed my pages yet it might be a good idea to do it. I have everything mentioned previously plus many more things you might find helpful. I am always experimenting with different things like makeup and nails and share my successes there.
