Years ago it was not the norm but theses days most any restaurant can be considered crossdresser friendly restaurants. It’s not universal and depends on the city but the larger more liberal ones are pretty reliable. I knew I was not taking my life in my own hands in Seattle having been there before and knowing what to expect. That said, there is a big difference between being welcomed as opposed to just tolerated. Absolutely everywhere I went in Seattle was very welcoming and enthusiastically supportive with all the proper pronouns. More than that though I felt they truly liked that fact that I was there.
Wednesday was my last night in Seattle and I had not gone to any seafood restaurants partly because they are all pretty much down in the waterfront area which is touristy. In my way of thinking large crowds of tourists are less predicable safety wise because you have no way of knowing who is in them. The other reason was because I had the other places scheduled for Monday and Tuesday nights. For Wednesday I picked Shuckers based on the pictures online and the fact that it was in the Fairmont Hotel which I know to be secure.
A CROSSDRESSER FRIENDLY RESTAURANT
Even though Shuckers is on the hotel property I entered through the street entrance so I had to walk through the whole restaurant to reach the hostess station. Anyone I made eye contact with smiled genuinely as I walked by giving me the impression they are a crossdresser friendly restaurant. Even though they are part of the hotel Shuckers has a local vibe with many people sitting at the bar eating seafood items.
The hostess welcomed me then sat me at a small table for 2 pictured at the right that was very cozy. My server Sean was a great waiter and took wonderful care of me. When they were running behind at the bar he treated me to a complimentary glass of wine while I waited for my Cosmo. I came for the fresh fish and was disappointed that Swordfish was sold out but the Halibut was amazing.
When I finished dinner I exited through the hotel entrance and got the host to take a picture of me before exploring the Fairmont Hotel lobby.
Once I saw the Fairmont Lobby I wanted to stay and hang out but I had a lot to do before leaving in the morning so left it for the next trip. The Fairmont Hotel turned 100 years old this year built in 1924.
Hi Miki,
When you look like a she, talk like a she and behave like a lady why wouldn’t you be addressed withe she and her as your pronouns. Pamela
Hi Pamela,
You ask a good question.
Firstly I have been at this a long time and things were not so accepting 40 years ago so I am always on guard. Second I don’t pass for several reasons one of witch is that I don’t try. I use my normal voice so everyone knows where I stand and there are no surprises. That is why it is so special that even with an obvious male voice they respect that I am dressed as a woman and treat me that way. The conversations that I enjoy with people that I meet are genuine because I am genuine from the start. They accept me as me and I cannot ask for anything more.
Best,
Micki Finn
Hey Micki – I stayed at the Fairmont in April. We drove down from BC to take in the Mariner’s home opener. My wife and I (crossdressed in a way I felt was tasteful with my makeup done professionally) had a lovely evening in the lounge at the Fairmont. If anyone noticed, there was little or no reaction and we were looked after well by the wait-staff.
Hi Brandy,
Lucky you! I will definitely hit the lounge on my next trip and I am not surprised you were treated well.
Did you use a local TG makeover source for your makeup?
Thanks,
Micki
I went to Sephora and had a makeover there. It was fabulous. I think Micki and Brandy are about similar vintage, with comparable fashion styles. You have my email 🙂
Hi Brandy,
Thanks for the comment and I love the vintage reference.
Micki