A crossdressers life is full of choices and as time marches on mature crossdresser choices can become more important. I like to think about it in terms of each decade being a chapter in my crossdressing life. The first chapter ages 1 to 10 being pretty much carefree doing little boy stuff until around 6 or 7 when I became fascinated with women’s clothing but had no idea why just like every young crossdresser. For most of us the next ten years ages 11 to 20 were pretty exiting as we learned more about crossdressing along with guilt, lying in addition to sneaking around. The only choices were whether or not to indulge our passion or hold off a little longer before caving in and doing it. The last half of this chapter is where the second choice of telling someone typically presents itself such as a girlfriend or potential wife.
Author: Micki Finn
LA BELLA PHOTO’S
I added the La Bella 2025 photo’s to my website and changed the menu to LA BELLA CROSSDRESSING EVENTS. Just click on the invitation to view the pictures from that event.
CROSSDRESSER TUSH
For mature crossdressers it might be more appropriate to label it the missing tush scenario. You know when you turn and look in the mirror and notice your butt is gone. Unless your an athletic person when you reach your senior years its likely your tush is smush! Not to worry there is a crossdresser tush fix I have recently come upon that I really like a lot. I have used a number of different hip pads with gel butt pads over the years. My Classic Curves and Dress Tech gel hip pads work well but the butt pads are difficult to align properly. I put the butt pad under garment on with the pads inside then put the bicycle shorts on top of them. Then I place the gel hip pads inside the bicycle shorts on top of the butt padded garment. It takes a bit of adjusting to get the hips aligned with the butt pads. I am currently using the SKIMS Butt Pad Mid Thigh Shorts to hold my gel pads in place. I just put the shorts on and hike them up where I want them. Next I put the gel hip pads into the bicycle short and align it with the butt pads for a perfect crossdresser tush.
CROSSDRESSER CONVERSATIONS
Crossdresser conversations typically don’t offer up personal details but general career path and hobby interests are usually safe territory. I have had some really enjoyable conversations with some very interesting people with some really cool careers. Very accomplished people who just happen to be wearing women’s clothing when the discussion took place. It is a gift in one sense because I likely never would have met many of these people if it weren’t for crossdressing. In a few cases crossdressing is about all we have in common so our paths would have never crossed.
Maintaining Style While Crossdressing in Summer Heat
I’m not talking about sex just summer crossdressing in hot weather. The urge does not stop because the weather changes the genie still needs to get out of the bottle. I am comfortable with crossdressing heat because I plan for it which basically means avoiding it. This adventure takes me back to Las Vegas where it topped 105 degrees on Saturday. First off I minimize my sun exposure by using UBER door to door. I go from one air conditioned environment to another with only a few steps from the door to the car.
CROSSDRESSER NAIL UPDATE
There are a lot of glue on nails advertised online and most say they have larger sizes but don’t. I have found three and purchase them on a subscription from Amazon. Classy crossdresser nails that fit are a must for every look and I prefer the French Manicure style.
The best fitting classy crossdresser nails are the wider fit ones from KISS which I get from Amazon. They have the squared tips which I am not all that fond of and I think the white part is larger than I prefer. They are truly wider though so I can just file them a bit to make them more acceptable.
Effective Coping Strategies for Crossdressers
There is a lot of aspects to crossdressing that many people don’t always think about. This is especially true if things are going well for you. One aspect is for those of us who initially struggled along with those who are still in that camp. Crossdresser coping strategies are needed to live with our compulsion successfully. Wives and girlfriends on the other hand need to develop a strategy of coping with crossdressers.
CROSSDRESSER RESPECT
With La Bella 2025 now behind me I can look forward to my next upcoming adventure. I can relax and do things at my pace with no demands on my time. All of my adventures involve public interactions. I am happy to say the level of crossdresser respect I experience is very high. Even though…
La Bella 2025: A Night of Elegance in Crossdressing Formals
Long Beach California again was the location La Bella 2025 the 2nd invitation only crossdressing in formals event. It wasn’t just crossdressers though as again about a third of those attending were crossdresser wives. The evening began with the champagne social hour. Everyone was dressed in formals and most crossdressing in formals. They were sipping…
FORMAL CROSSDRESSING
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