For many of us crossdressers who don’t indulge our girly side daily and live under the radar it is important to not leave any tell tale signs of being her. We all know people who seem to notice everything about you like the pimple on your nose from 300 yards away. They are the ones you have to watch out for so I will share some of my tricks to keep the big secret.
I got the idea for this post after thinking about my last adventure. We all know crossdressing does not go away so managing it well pays off. My wife and I made a place for Micki Time in our schedule years ago and it works very well. The harmless crossdresser idea is based on what I do during Micki Time. A couple of days each month I get dressed as the most glamorous woman I can conjure up. I then go for dinner and drinks in a nice restaurant with friends or alone. That’s pretty much it other than possibly attending a show in Las Vegas if I’m there.
For a Long Beach Crossdresser there is no shortage of places to go all of which will most likely be welcoming to you. The newly reopened Breakers (Fairmont) Hotel was no exception when BFF Ashley and I reunited after not seeing each other for several months. It was fitting that we went to the new…
I got to thinking about the many crossdressers that never go in public for fear of being recognized. Then I thought about how many times I have walked past someone that either knows Duke or Micki. It’s one or the other with very few exceptions because they know either Micki or Duke. Only a hand full of very trusted people have seen both Duke and Micki. The makeup I am wearing while dressed serves as a crossdresser mask hiding my true identity.
Daytime crossdressing for many of us is a no brainer provided the opportunity presents itself. Over the years I have developed more of a take it or leave it attitude towards it. Back in the day when there were many opportunities to try on dresses in stores like Macy’s, Nordstrom and Dillard’s in Malls I…
Saturday night I had reservations at the Portland City Grill and the entire afternoon to get ready with some makeup experimentation along the way. Years ago I would never just make a reservation and go to a new place without calling ahead to see if they were a crossdresser friendly restaurant. I don’t anymore because its not an issue in most places and my attitude is I belong their. I have never had a problem anywhere with that attitude and in Liberal cities its not even necessary as they are all crossdresser friendly restaurants.
I have always enjoy city crossdressing because there are so many great restaurants to choose from. People tend to dress up a bit more at the nicer places so I don’t stand out as much. This adventure has me back in Portland Oregon again at the Historic Benson Hotel in the hart of downtown. Built in 1912 the Benson is now in my collection of crossdressing VINTAGE HOTELS and it is definitely one of the more elegant structures.
I got to thinking the other day about my life as a Crossdresser which took me to the beginning. I was pretty young at around 6 or 8 years old from what I remember which, is a significant age that I will expand on later. I did not have a label at that age and was alone with my strange little pastime never even experiencing guilt at first. That was installed when I got caught the first time and when I vowed to never do it again. The first time! I would make that vow over and over again many times and getting quite good at it. I got better at guilt management over time as well which, came in handy when the time came to take the inevitable step and venture out in public.
Crossdressers like myself might relate to my crossdresser waterfall metaphor. Thinking back to my crossdressing adventures in San Francisco years ago which started with Duke checking into the hotel. To those not in the know it was probably bizarre because he never left the room. Duke went through the crossdresser waterfall when entering the hotel…
Creating Micki Finn is a crossdressing ritual but fun and quite involved so I thought my subscribers might appreciate learning about it. It is different for everyone but my situation is kind of unique because I only cross dress 2 or 3 days each month. It always involves traveling to different cities so I call it the Micki Finn Road Show although I don’t entertain anyone. Well, not knowingly anyway. Most places I go to have seen us before they just glance and move on.
