CROSSDRESSER PMA

Attitude is a crucial part of everyday life and that is especially true for crossdressers. The PMA above stands for positive mental attitude which I cut down for Crossdresser PMA. Years ago when I was in a sales training class is where I first heard the the term when they were teaching us how to close a sale. It was used along with other terms like “enthusiasm breeds enthusiasm” and “you never get a second chance to make a good first impression”. Think about those phrases for a second. It wasn’t part of any of those sessions but growing up I heard the phrase “you are a product of your environment” again let that sink in.

Social Media has its good and bad points and much of what I see is negative which is what prompted this post. I suggest that people especially young ones block negative content and focus on fun and positive things. Keyboard courage is rampant on the internet and people feel safe saying things online they would never say to your face so get rid of them. Don’t give them space in your head and fill it with positive things instead. If you associate with positive people it will effect your disposition and improve your state of mind.

Crossdressing is about how it makes you feel not about what others think. Use your Crossdresser PMA to focus on enjoying all of the aspects of being crossdressed. No matter how you dress there are negative people out there that won’t approve of your choices. It’s no different for famous women all over the world who get comments like, skirts too short, or too tight, and heels too high along with blouse cut too low. Don’t let people steal your joy by valuing their opinion which might be envy, jealousy, or ignorance, it doesn’t matter, block it.

Years ago in San Francisco where we all felt very relaxed and comfortable crossdressed anywhere in the city I was meeting some crossdresser friends at the St. Francis hotel at Union Square. As I walked in the side lobby entrance I almost came face to face with a 40 something guy with a look of horror on his face. The look was for me and it was like he was seeing a pus oozing Stephen King character and he wanted to puke. It caught me off guard and the thick blanket of shame and self loathing covered me for a couple of minutes. Then I pulled together my Crossdresser PMA and actually chuckled because that poor devil was in San Francisco probably the most liberal city in the world. If I bothered him that much once he saw what else was out there in store for him he was sure to be puking the rest of his trip!

You can recover from a bad experience or avoid one up front by projecting your Crossdresser PMA and not letting your guard down in the first place.

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